In the last post I wrote about how we need to control the contents on internet which are being misused. Today I'll write about why people misuse the internet or even without internet why women are being abused.
Yes. The root of the problem is in the society. The society is biased in such a way that women are always supposed to be objects , precious or not and not as humans who breathe eat or walk. The very idea of considering woman as precious is as dangerous as considering her as lowly as to treat her like a slave. Whatever a woman is considered, it is slavery only. Everywhere, women are considered as slaves. A slave who won't stand up for herself or if she does at all, the evil male dominated society will suppress her by any means.
This kind of attitude is reflected everywhere. Not only in rapes. Rape is the extreme case where a deluded useless male tries to impose his dominance over any female he sees. Just because you were brought up under the delusion that you are male so you can do anything as you please doesn't acquit you from being a criminal of law and an evil person. In one way or other , the upbringing of every child causes an unconscious attitude which is affirmed again and again . The attitude of male superiority and female inferiority. That causes all the major and minor problems happening today. To stop them, we have to change the way we bring up children especially boys.
I will cite certain examples of how men in this country view women despite worshipping innumerable number of goddesses.
1) This is something I witnessed in a KSRTC bus years ago. The conductor of that bus was a young woman. And that bus was NOT an ordinary bus. A crap man who was apparently retired was travelling in that bus. Seeing that the conductor was a woman, he couldn't tolerate it and demanded the bus be stopped in the stop where ordinary buses stop. When the conductor refused to do so, and stopped only at the stop where a fast could stop, he started abusing her verbally!!!! She was a government employee of half his age and that shamless a*****e started abusing her for doing his duty!!!!
2) This is my own personal experience. A middle aged man who was well dressed in style with a French beard and shirt inserted and with a suitcase, abused me verbally calling me by names when I refused to get down from a bus until it went inside the terminus. It was just outside the terminus and everybody was hurrying to get down. I by my bad luck went to he door and stood there waiting for the bus which was stranded in the traffic just outside the terminus to enter the terminus!!! I was doing the right thing by not getting down midway in traffic risking my life or others, but this well dressed stylish moron couldn't wait till the bus entered the terminus. How dare he abuse a girl in public? He looked like an employee in some bank or college. What service is he doing to the society if he is willing to abuse women/girls in public. At home he will be a torturer. He is a classic example of a male chauvanist pig.
3) Another experience of mine against which I spoke against and did what I should have done. This is too as bus (man what is wrong with our public transport system? Or are men so unhappy at home that they show off only in public places harassing others?). I was travelling in a crowded long distance bus carrying my laptop bag on my back. Provided the safety history and purity of character of people in this country along with the "fine" condition of the road along which the bus was travelling with hight speed, I was afraid to keep my laptop on the rack and decided to stand with it on the back. Now comes the story. I was standing near to a seat where a mother was sitting with 2 children. Since children are citizens too, I didn't ask her to keep one child in her lap and free a space there.
Then my parents who were standing too got seats at positions +-2 from my position. They asked me to pass the bag to them. But provided the weight if the bag and provided the fact that handing over such a heavy thing will throw off balance and hurt people and laptop if it fell down by chance I refused to do so. The villain was sitting there somewhere behind where I was standing with his wife /gf. NOW I have to describe the villain of this story. From the moment I had boarded the bus, I had noticed him passing remarks on everything/everybody as if he were the only "perfect" soul in that bus. Then my father got a seat near to him and I went to sit with him. You can imagine the rush and how I managed to go through it. Unfortunately (or fortunately because I got to expose the true character of an MCP) the lock on my bag scratched this MCP's elbow on my way to the seat. I didn't understand anything until I sat down, then I heard a loud cursing from this MCP.
I apologised him for causing this unknown scratch. But evidently he was no gentleman (not even worthy of being called a HUman). He couldn't accept the fact that he got scratched by a girl's bag. He started cursing me and verbally abusing me with words like I am disobedient and my blood is hot and all that. He then even threatened that had I been a boy he would have beaten me up and taken me to the police station!!! He didn't even listen to my father's or mother's apologies. He didn't even listen to the people who were telling him to keep quite and stop misbehaving in the bus. He went on cursing until a very irritated man shouted at him.
Well so good so forth. But look at his attitude. He dares to threaten a person/persons inside a public bus/in a public place to beat them up! Who ought to be taken to the police station? And what did he think when he called me disobedient? This clearly shows that he wants all women to be slaves to the rotten MCP ego and should not be smart or independent. I thought about this a lot after that. It was not his scratch which prompted him to abuse me. It was the fact that a smart girl (please excuse me for calling myself smart) was standing confidently in a bus where as he was full of his complexes and inferiorities and insufficiencies. I don't think that having a hot blood hurts a woman. Does it? Actually women ought to have some hot blood to stop the attitudes of the MCPs towards them.
After all this, a middle aged man (about 55 or so) who was sitting beside my father started "advising" me that it was my disobedience to my parents that had cause all the problems!!! He was saying it as if he was doing some good to me. I told him the reason why I hadn't given the bag to anyone and what it could have caused had it fallen on someone's head in the process of being transported. Then he had to touvh my bag!! He literally touched it in awe since it contained the laptop!!!!!! Now isn't my reason for carrying it valid??? At the terminus this MCP villain got down silently with his wife/GF and went away. Now I've to tell something about this MCP. He was wearing a brown beaded bracelet and a square glass and was really fat (see how this country's resources are being wasted on useless people like htis MCP) and pretended to be a know it all!!!!
But he was a know it all only in his appearance. Pathetically he was not trained well by his FATHER how to behave to women or people. I am sure that he does domestic violence at home to his wife (if she was his wife). Anyway I earnestly wanted that woman to divorce him as soon as possible. Hmmmmm.....
Everybody told me to keep quite about this. The sad thing is that, the conductor of the bus (who is supposed to take care of the situations in a bus), stood silently. Had he told something sternly, to this MCP or made him to leave the bus as soon as he started public nuisance, no passenger would have been irritated. It was a minor incident. But worth reporting since that man had dared to misbehave to women and general public in a public place like a state transport corporation's bus. I filed a complaint to the corporation about this though I didn't get any response. I don't feel bad. Atleast I didn't keep quite after getting abused even if it was verbally.
Women/girls should understand one thing clearly. Nobody has the right to abuse you. Mentally/verbally/physically. Nobody has the right to comment on your bodies be it slim or fat, even if it is your own parents (unless you are severely above or below your BMI and it is for health reasons that they are commenting). Nobody owns your body. You are its owner. You have your own nervous system, circulatory system, respiratory, digestive, excretory and reproductive system. In school we study that there are 9 main organ systems. Reproductive system is only of them. Not even the main. Nothing will happen if that system of yours is not working. But if the other 8 don't work you won't live.
So you must resist all the attempts to label you as a mere reproductive machine or object of pleasure or abuse by your will power and stand up for YOURSELF. It is always a pride to stand up for yourself. It is a shame if you or the people around you think/try to impose the attitude that a girl/woman has to be protected by a male, it is a shame. Because the best person who can protect and help you at all times (even when you are alone) is you yourself. Learn to grow independent with some HOT BLOOD. Otherwise you will be slaves for ever.
Yes. The root of the problem is in the society. The society is biased in such a way that women are always supposed to be objects , precious or not and not as humans who breathe eat or walk. The very idea of considering woman as precious is as dangerous as considering her as lowly as to treat her like a slave. Whatever a woman is considered, it is slavery only. Everywhere, women are considered as slaves. A slave who won't stand up for herself or if she does at all, the evil male dominated society will suppress her by any means.
This kind of attitude is reflected everywhere. Not only in rapes. Rape is the extreme case where a deluded useless male tries to impose his dominance over any female he sees. Just because you were brought up under the delusion that you are male so you can do anything as you please doesn't acquit you from being a criminal of law and an evil person. In one way or other , the upbringing of every child causes an unconscious attitude which is affirmed again and again . The attitude of male superiority and female inferiority. That causes all the major and minor problems happening today. To stop them, we have to change the way we bring up children especially boys.
I will cite certain examples of how men in this country view women despite worshipping innumerable number of goddesses.
1) This is something I witnessed in a KSRTC bus years ago. The conductor of that bus was a young woman. And that bus was NOT an ordinary bus. A crap man who was apparently retired was travelling in that bus. Seeing that the conductor was a woman, he couldn't tolerate it and demanded the bus be stopped in the stop where ordinary buses stop. When the conductor refused to do so, and stopped only at the stop where a fast could stop, he started abusing her verbally!!!! She was a government employee of half his age and that shamless a*****e started abusing her for doing his duty!!!!
2) This is my own personal experience. A middle aged man who was well dressed in style with a French beard and shirt inserted and with a suitcase, abused me verbally calling me by names when I refused to get down from a bus until it went inside the terminus. It was just outside the terminus and everybody was hurrying to get down. I by my bad luck went to he door and stood there waiting for the bus which was stranded in the traffic just outside the terminus to enter the terminus!!! I was doing the right thing by not getting down midway in traffic risking my life or others, but this well dressed stylish moron couldn't wait till the bus entered the terminus. How dare he abuse a girl in public? He looked like an employee in some bank or college. What service is he doing to the society if he is willing to abuse women/girls in public. At home he will be a torturer. He is a classic example of a male chauvanist pig.
3) Another experience of mine against which I spoke against and did what I should have done. This is too as bus (man what is wrong with our public transport system? Or are men so unhappy at home that they show off only in public places harassing others?). I was travelling in a crowded long distance bus carrying my laptop bag on my back. Provided the safety history and purity of character of people in this country along with the "fine" condition of the road along which the bus was travelling with hight speed, I was afraid to keep my laptop on the rack and decided to stand with it on the back. Now comes the story. I was standing near to a seat where a mother was sitting with 2 children. Since children are citizens too, I didn't ask her to keep one child in her lap and free a space there.
Then my parents who were standing too got seats at positions +-2 from my position. They asked me to pass the bag to them. But provided the weight if the bag and provided the fact that handing over such a heavy thing will throw off balance and hurt people and laptop if it fell down by chance I refused to do so. The villain was sitting there somewhere behind where I was standing with his wife /gf. NOW I have to describe the villain of this story. From the moment I had boarded the bus, I had noticed him passing remarks on everything/everybody as if he were the only "perfect" soul in that bus. Then my father got a seat near to him and I went to sit with him. You can imagine the rush and how I managed to go through it. Unfortunately (or fortunately because I got to expose the true character of an MCP) the lock on my bag scratched this MCP's elbow on my way to the seat. I didn't understand anything until I sat down, then I heard a loud cursing from this MCP.
I apologised him for causing this unknown scratch. But evidently he was no gentleman (not even worthy of being called a HUman). He couldn't accept the fact that he got scratched by a girl's bag. He started cursing me and verbally abusing me with words like I am disobedient and my blood is hot and all that. He then even threatened that had I been a boy he would have beaten me up and taken me to the police station!!! He didn't even listen to my father's or mother's apologies. He didn't even listen to the people who were telling him to keep quite and stop misbehaving in the bus. He went on cursing until a very irritated man shouted at him.
Well so good so forth. But look at his attitude. He dares to threaten a person/persons inside a public bus/in a public place to beat them up! Who ought to be taken to the police station? And what did he think when he called me disobedient? This clearly shows that he wants all women to be slaves to the rotten MCP ego and should not be smart or independent. I thought about this a lot after that. It was not his scratch which prompted him to abuse me. It was the fact that a smart girl (please excuse me for calling myself smart) was standing confidently in a bus where as he was full of his complexes and inferiorities and insufficiencies. I don't think that having a hot blood hurts a woman. Does it? Actually women ought to have some hot blood to stop the attitudes of the MCPs towards them.
After all this, a middle aged man (about 55 or so) who was sitting beside my father started "advising" me that it was my disobedience to my parents that had cause all the problems!!! He was saying it as if he was doing some good to me. I told him the reason why I hadn't given the bag to anyone and what it could have caused had it fallen on someone's head in the process of being transported. Then he had to touvh my bag!! He literally touched it in awe since it contained the laptop!!!!!! Now isn't my reason for carrying it valid??? At the terminus this MCP villain got down silently with his wife/GF and went away. Now I've to tell something about this MCP. He was wearing a brown beaded bracelet and a square glass and was really fat (see how this country's resources are being wasted on useless people like htis MCP) and pretended to be a know it all!!!!
But he was a know it all only in his appearance. Pathetically he was not trained well by his FATHER how to behave to women or people. I am sure that he does domestic violence at home to his wife (if she was his wife). Anyway I earnestly wanted that woman to divorce him as soon as possible. Hmmmmm.....
Everybody told me to keep quite about this. The sad thing is that, the conductor of the bus (who is supposed to take care of the situations in a bus), stood silently. Had he told something sternly, to this MCP or made him to leave the bus as soon as he started public nuisance, no passenger would have been irritated. It was a minor incident. But worth reporting since that man had dared to misbehave to women and general public in a public place like a state transport corporation's bus. I filed a complaint to the corporation about this though I didn't get any response. I don't feel bad. Atleast I didn't keep quite after getting abused even if it was verbally.
Women/girls should understand one thing clearly. Nobody has the right to abuse you. Mentally/verbally/physically. Nobody has the right to comment on your bodies be it slim or fat, even if it is your own parents (unless you are severely above or below your BMI and it is for health reasons that they are commenting). Nobody owns your body. You are its owner. You have your own nervous system, circulatory system, respiratory, digestive, excretory and reproductive system. In school we study that there are 9 main organ systems. Reproductive system is only of them. Not even the main. Nothing will happen if that system of yours is not working. But if the other 8 don't work you won't live.
So you must resist all the attempts to label you as a mere reproductive machine or object of pleasure or abuse by your will power and stand up for YOURSELF. It is always a pride to stand up for yourself. It is a shame if you or the people around you think/try to impose the attitude that a girl/woman has to be protected by a male, it is a shame. Because the best person who can protect and help you at all times (even when you are alone) is you yourself. Learn to grow independent with some HOT BLOOD. Otherwise you will be slaves for ever.
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