Sunday, November 22, 2020

"The Queen's Gambit" - What a series!

If I have to define this series in two words I will say "freaking brillinat". There are many many many things that have been said and written about this mini-series on Netflix, you can google them or find on youtube. Before I delve much deeper let me say this - a person asked me what is there in this series to like except chess? As a person who doesn't know anything about chess all I can say is that it is not just chess which makes this series brilliant. Again even though I am not a movie critic or expert, as a lay person who watches a lot of movies I can say for sure that this is an extremely well made show - well written, well shot, well edited, well acted, well choreographed, with an excellent background score. Oh and the makeup  - just how cleverly the colour of Beth's lipsticks indicated her maturity and the deepest shade was a nod to her adoptive mother! Does anyone need any more proof for the thought process and detailed effort that has gone into this show? So if you are someone who is thinking that there is nothing interesting in this show except chess or if you are a person who doesn't know anything about the game watch it anyway because if you don't you will be missing out on a cinematic marvel. There are moments in this series when I wished to watch it on big screen just because that scene was giving me goosebumps. After all that you can check out those articles/videos which explain how camera angles were used to create drama - how the framing matters etc. 

I am not going to explain all these. But what I felt as a viewer watching this series. Spoiler alert - don't read further if you haven't watched the series yet. 

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To be honest for over sometime I have been seeing the thumbnail and wondering about whether to click it or not. I don't remember if I watched the trailer or not, in any case I didn't think it was interesting enough. Then at some point I think I saw some review which said it is based on a book so I cheked and found that the show is based on a book by a male author. So I was skeptical again - how can a story about a woman written by a man be good? Would it be authentic? (I still have no answer for this.) I haven't read the book either so I don't know if the book is really good too. But because I had finished watching all the thousand something episodes of Pokemon and clicked the thumbnail anyway thinking that if I don't like it I can always close it and watch something else. What I felt in the next 10-15 minutes is inexplicable. I was spell bound - had been itching since the first episode to tell how well written this is - but controlled it till the last episode.

How Beth discovers the basemenet and what is there, how she asks to know what that game is and how she deliberately bangs the eraser to make it known to Mr.Shaibel that she is down there and will not be satisfied unless he teaches her the game. Some of these scenes (like many more to come in the series) have no dialouges in it - but the intend is conveyed beautifully, executed beautifully. So beautifully that it makes you aware of how well written it is. There is a beauty to watching movies or series that are well written - the beauty being that it rivets you to the screen, makes it too difficult to take your eyes off the screen for even a moment. 

And then there is the addiction. It really was shocking for me to see that orphanages in that era used to give tranquilisers to children until it was banned by law. There is a lot happening in between how Jolene helps Beth cope with the life in the orphanage, how Beth's addiction starts and so on - just watch it. The child Beth's addiction is particularly shocking there is a scene which aptly portrays how an ingenious child would solve the problem of getting to the thing she wants - here the banned tranquiliser and how an addict would behave. Here is a small girl who does something shockingly unnatural eating tranquilsers like candy or cake. Usually smalle girls do shockingly unnatural things only in horror movies. Here in a slice of life situation it creates more impact and leaves you wondering if small children can get addicted, then I rembeered Robert Downey Jr. Isla Johnston as young Beth Harmon is superb - at some point I even wondered how this series would look if she had played the character all throughout. :) (But ofcourse then this series would have had to be made over the years to match the character's age.)  

There are so many other things each essay worthy, but the viewer has to experience that for themselves.  Now let us come to the part where she starts playing chess and her first tournament. Like I said even though I don't play the game, I could completely relate to what Beth was going through. In fact the main reason why I love this series so much is because Beth playing chess reminded me of my quizzing days. Infact if you happened to have participated in any competition this series is sure to remind you of all those experiences. While Beth Harmon had very tough life circumstances to deal with her career in chess is something which many of us can relate to. 

What I struck me are the following:

1) Beth doesn't win games just by her natural talent or her addiction. She practises her games, be in her mind visualizing it on the celing or on the board. She actively puruses reading as much about it as possible. There is a whole lot of earnest effort and practice going on which may or may not be shown on the screen. If not shown we are supposed to understand it. Now if we take chess out of it and put anything else there, it is the same. Anybody who has ever pursued something seriously will understand it - how actively and deeply we go for it, practise for it and work hard for it before we win it all.  

2) Beth's gender - Beth's gender has a lot to do with how she is perceived as a player. In the show once it becomes clear to everyone that she is an excellent player, majority of people stop brooding over her gender and looks at her game. (I am not the only person who seems to have noticied this about the series.) And that is a good thing because when you are judged solely on the basis of your talent, one can let go of the burden of dealing with the extra hurdles and judgements (which usually a woman has to deal with after a certain age) and push their boundaries to seek excellence in what they do. 

Everytime her gender is made a fuss about she is unhappy because instead of directly accepting the fact that she is very good at what she does people seems to be surprised and saying "for a girl you are good". Trust me that is very annoying. When Borgov offeres her a draw and when the commentator makes a statement saying that she should accept it, it implies the doubt over her ability only because she is a woman, and a prejudice that she cannot do better because she is a woman and should be content with what she could achieve. But ofcourse Beth pushed the envelope further. Why go for a tie when you can win? 

What I felt that it was easier for Beth to win as a child or a not-so-stylish teenager than to win as a super-stylish woman she evolves into. The show puts the question straight in one episode when a journalist asks her "What do you have to say about being called too stylish to be taken as a serious player?" Any woman who has ever been stylish and was judged about her abilities will surely understand this. Beth being so feminine and stylish in a male dominated sport is hard to miss. Women in Physics (and other STEM), does the situation sound similar to you? :) But Beth being Beth, ultimately makes people shut their mouth knowingly or unknowingly becasue she is undeniably good.  

While in real life chess and many other things like STEM have a lot of prejudices and don't always treat women equally and puts unnecessary self doubts into the minds of young women by means of derogatory comments it was an assuring reminder to see a female character who was extremely good at what she does. Not just that she went for what she wanted in life no matter what - contrasted probably by her adoptive mother - how she didn't puruse her piano career though nothing was preventing her from doing so after a ceretain period of time.  

3) Which brings me to this point - Beth's defeats. I was so relieved when Beth didn't win everything she played. Because that would have looked so unnatural and artificial. In any competitive field a strong opponent/rival (as they say in animes) is bound to show up. Which is good. How on Earth is somebody supposed to improve without tough opponents? (This realisation was also the effect of all those Pokemon episodes where Ash always has someone stronger and better to face and does not always win.) Beth goes into a downward spiral after her second defeat to Borgov. What I felt was that she completely know that it was her fault. The defeats we suffer because of our own carelessness are the hardest to get out of. It really pains when we know that it was nobody else's fault but our own - we didn't put that extra effort, took things for granted and were careless. That can lead to all kinds of disastrous consequences. All we need to do is to pick ourselves up and move forward and mend the mistakes for us. That's what she does ultimately. What makes the ending of this series so brilliant is that she becomes aware of that and mends that mistake. Then plays for herself, wins it for herself.   

There are many many other beautiful things about this series. Like the following:

 1) Jolene's character - Jolene's reappearance is when I felt relieved. Jolene is a gem of a character. Like some internet user said I would like to know what her life story is. That is definitely worth making another series. :) Moses Ingram's acting is so beautiful and assuring. The dialogues she has with Beth are gems too. (Including the one where she says "You should not thave bought the house or all those dresses." ;) ) To really appreciate this character watch the series. 

2) Mr. Shaibel - Like another internet user wrote, Mr. Shaibel in the basement could have been a creep. But he wasn't. And that made the whole difference in the story. I will not say anything more, the basement scenes are some of the best in the series. 

3) Beth's Gibson toast to Alma Wheatly.   

4) You have seen Harry Beltik somewhere before. Haven't you? :) 

5) Beth's crush on Townes in the Kentucky tournament. 

6) Beth stealing chess magazines from the drug store. Do look for these scenes in the series. 

7) Beth's game against Girev and how she keeps on asking what after that and how he keeps saying "I don't understand". 

8) How Beth gets backs all her money from Benny at speed chess. 

9) How all her friends call her from Benny's apartment.

10) The last scene of the series - I am crying just thinking of that scene. 

Two other things I realised aftere watching the series is how sharp and crisp the editing and how good the background score are. The length of the series is perfect. An episode more or less might not have done justice to this. Do read about the cinematic techniques used for this seires. They are mind blowing. Makes you want to do something good like that. In otherwords I will say this is the "Titanic" of Netflix series. Ofcourse the entire cast has acted so well that I am not mentioning it separately. Anya Taylor-Joy's acting is a joy to watch. 

 In any case just watch it. While the real world may be still unkind to women in many fields, God it felt so good to see a female character who goes out and gets what she wants and excels in it. So, chess is not the only thing to like about this series. (Afterall we all love "Chak De India!" eventhough we are not all hockey players or enthusiasts. Same goes for all sports movies - we  don't love sports movies just because we may be able to play the sport or understand the rules of the sport. There is a strong human emotion which relates to pursuing something, discovering the joy of doing it, failing at it, picking up the pieces, correcting the mistakes and winning at it.) 

If you look carefully enough, you will realise why this is a great series. Not just technically but also as something which appeals to humans as such. 

PS: Some math easter eggs:

1) There is a scene where Beth answers what a binomial is. Chess has two players.

2) Alice Harmon, Beth's birth mother was a mathematician whose PhD thesis was named  "Monomial Representations and Symmetric Presentations". I am just wondering if this has anything to do with permutations and chess. Anybody who might know this please clarify. 











Sunday, June 21, 2020

Mental health - some thoughts

Disclaimer : I am not an expert on the subject  - these are my thoughts as a lay person. 
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Last week's news has hit me very hard and I am not being able to forget it and the discussions around it that easily. Because it has triggered some bad memories - the ones I would rather not remember. We won't know the exact specifications of what happened in that particular case until it is solved. But there was such a deluge of sudden discussion about mental health, professional and personal lives that it made me think about some of the following:
1) Everybody has suddenly woken up to the fact that mental health is important and people should be helped. But how many of us are trained to spot mental illness and give first aid and then to seek appropriate medical help? We are taught to give first aids for wounds and injuries and know that medical help should be sought. But what first aids can be given for mental health? Has anybody ever taught us scientifically?
2) Taboo around mental health - Even in this age, there are people who deny treatment to their family members in need of medical help citing stupid reasons such as "if people came to know that there is a mentally ill person in the family that will diminish the marriage prospects of their siblings". People will rush to hospital if they have a physical ailment and do everything to treat it and keep healthy. If it is a family member we ensure that they get appropriate treatment. Then why is it so hard for people when it comes to mental illness? Is it not inhuman to refuse medical treatment in the name of family honor and leave a human being to a terrible plight?
3) Myths about the mind - Mind is somehow treated as a mythical being, which has no connection to our bodies (as if it is hovering above our heads all the time with a magical staff) and hence people believe that any "error" to it can be self corrected or "corrected" by rituals, cult activities etc. How many of us were (again) taught scientifically about what mind actually is? How many of us were told as children or students that mind has a connection to your body's state and it has a physical basis? (Since I am no expert in that field I won't write too much.)
4) Now about the discussions around professional and personal factors affecting mental health. Everybody acknowledges that happenings in personal and professional life can affect mental health of a person. As a person in academia I know what that feels like to have extreme stress from various sources.
a) Pressure to live life as other people desire. And those others who may not even be aware fully of the intricacies of your profession and what you want from life as a person! The ones exerting these kinds of pressures may not be even aware of the stress they might be causing on the one affected. It could be because of generation gap - that a certain generation feels that there is nothing like depression or mental stress.
b) If you are in academia, there is the constant pressure of publish or perish. The discussions around how the actor lost some 6 films has been nagging me. So, if the N number of papers on which I or any academic has worked never see the light of the world, does it mean the end?
The last one is hitting me harder because I cannot stop thinking that, if at some point a person loses everything they loved or wanted to do, because of pressure from different sets and the different sets are not willing to understand what the correct situation is, but judge you, isolate you anyway and the stress affects your mental health and you have nobody to support you (because those who are supposed to support you might be the ones stressing you out), you yourself cannot stay strong anymore, what are you supposed to do?
It is only when some terrible news appears that everybody suddenly wakes up to the fact that mental health is important. Then after a week or two everybody forgets about it. Then a section of people wonder what is the "reason" behind it and wonder despite financial, social whatever status why people have things to "worry" about. Reason or no reason, it is true there are large and small mental health issues. Physiological, environmental, stress etc factors can affect mental health. People need to be scientifically made aware of it and the seriousness of it. Otherwise every time someone suicides we can search for "reasons" in vain and lament "oh I should have helped". It won't be a cake walk to help anybody with severe mental illness. But that will be better than losing someone to it. We need proper scientific awareness.
For example when Covid-19 started there were a whole lot of fake whatsapp forwards about how to "treat" and stay immune from it. But as time progressed, even within a shot span people have atleast become aware of the correct scientific basic measures ought to be taken and followed. (Again the same pandemic has affected the mental health of a lot of people, but many times it goes undetected.) So it is not impossible to create correct awareness and make people understand. Yes it takes many many iterations and explanations to get some points to people. The same is possible for mental health, if only we stop treating our mind as a magical mythical, disconnected-from-the-body being and stop believing in false things like only 10% of our brain is used.
I am not an expert on physiology, psychiatry, psychology or mental health. But I want to learn the basic things to identify a situation if needed and be able to help myself and others (like how we learn about first aid even if we are not medical specialists). And that needs proper training. We and the coming generations should be made scientifically aware of it.

Wednesday, June 3, 2020

Pain...

I have lost track of time...
Can't remeber what happened...
I have been standing here for ever...
In this cold soothing water...
More than half of my body submerged,
No I can't raise my head above the water...
I won't be able to bear the pain...

It is burning...
My mouth is burning,
I can't feel my tongue,
That tongue which tasted lush green grass,
Sweet water of the forest...
And a fruit...
All I remember is eating one...

Then there was pain,
My brain blacked out,
It was as if hell had broken loose,
On me... I don't know what happened...

My stomach is burning of hunger...
My chest burns...
My mouth burns...
The water is filling my lungs...
My thoughts are blurring....

I have been standing here for long...
The pain, it is searing through me...
I dont remember how long I travelled
After the pain first broke on me...

There are flies and maggots inside my mouth...
They are eating me up...
I can feel them...
The Sun is searing me...
This pain even more...
I wish I could cry loudly...
But I cannot...

Is that the Moon?
My forest would be shining now...
The pain, my thoughts are blurring....
My legs are numb, but I cannot move...
Water is my only solace...
But it is filling inside me...

This burning is excruciating...
This feels like eternity...
It is burning... 
My entrire body is burning...
With pain...

I see two elephants...
Are they my friends?
I hear human voices...
My thouoghts are blurring again,
This pain...

I wish I could see my mother...
I wish I could cuddle with her...
And be embraced in her trunk....

It has been an eternity....
Slowly... I see darkness...

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And then she died after enduring the excruciating pain that injured her fatally. She died of eating a cracker filled fruit which some farmers use to kill wild boars. The use of such methods are illegal, but people continue using them. The post mortem of this elephant showed that she was pregnant. The expression on that poor elephant is beyond heartbreaking. How much pain would she have endured? I cannot even imagine how excrucitaing the pain she suffered. Even if she had not been pregnant, it is still heartbreaking that a living being had to go through such pain and be the victim of such cruelty.

Please sign this petition. Such brutality MUST NEVER happen again.

https://www.change.org/p/ministry-of-law-and-justice-justice-for-our-voiceless-friends?recruiter=554932058&utm_source=share_petition&utm_medium=facebook&utm_campaign=psf_combo_share_abi&utm_term=psf_combo_share_initial&recruited_by_id=cdcf83a0-2eeb-11e6-8676-8d0dd5102c4d&use_react=false













Thursday, May 14, 2020

Covid19 times - Part 2

Travel :

In a world where we cannot travel,
You and I are truely distantly apart...

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My life: Before spring

The world outside my window remains the same
All I see is that window, and the sky
What would have been life 
Without the night sky?

Oh I forgot to tell, work from home has 
Ruined my non-routine life,
Worsened it, I see the night 
But not the day,
No sleep, no food, no aim...
Because of the reversed routine...

Spring hasn't come yet, 
The world outside my window 
Still lacks colour. 

My life has become totally colourless 
As in I left my colouring stuff at home
Who ever thought life would take this turn?

Now I miss those colours and it is getting to my nerves....
No, a mobile colouring app won't do. 
I want my real colouring pens, crayons and pastels,
Even if it is to draw and colour randomly.
I could do with some colours now. 

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Alone:

I have forgotten to look into the mirror,
For there is no need to get ready everyday 
To go somewhere...
Even though I see myself in the mirror above the basin, 
My image doesn't register...

Science and technology saved our lives,
Had there been none
Being alone would have been truly lonely!!

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Life during spring:

The world outside is beautiful...
Well only homosapiens are affected!
The world has become colourful,
Trees bearing leaves and sweet songs of birds...

The days have become longer,
The sunsets are pink...
I still don't sleep at night.
But it has its perks
For I get to bask in beautiful moonlight
And witness moon sets,
As if the moon is slowly
Getting tucked away into the
Fabric of the sky as the dawn comes.

Occassional outings into the world
Makes me happy for it is spring,
Flowers, leaves, birds...
It is a pity that this spring is like this...
In a normal world I would have taken
My phone out and instagrammed this beauty...

I am still working from home,
Thinking even a summer vacation
Would have ended in two months...
Finally I got some colours,
And that made me truly happy...

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What next?

Let us hope for the best.
Of course nothing will be "normal"
Only the new normal will be there.
World came to a standstill, now
It has to take baby steps.
This too is life and this is an experience.

What has it taught?
That nothing in life is trivial,
Nothing is to be taken for granted,
Like even a piece of paper or a pen,
Everything is valuable.
There will be harsh realities,
But never stop dreaming
For, even the smallest of those
Aspirations can make us stride on!








Tuesday, March 31, 2020

Life in the times of Covid-19 - Part 1

To be very honest, never in my wildest nightmares had I ever imagined that I will see a pandemic of this scale in my life. Nothing is normal. From an outside point of view it feels so. But if I analyse it d/dx it feels a bit surreal and I sometimes feel that I am in a dream. But I am not. The entire species of homosapiens are not. There are many thoughts which have been running through my mind for several days. Some thoughts have been put down on various social media platforms. But not everybody would have been able to read them. So I am collecting some of those thoughts and am writing down those. Anybody who will read this post - wherever you are on the globe my regards to you.

1) Please be safe, stay where you are do not travel unless it is very very very urgent. May such urgencies not arise now. 

2) Wash your hands with soap and water. If you can't access those please use alcohol based hand sanitisers. 

3) Keep respiratory hygenie - cover your nose and mouth with a disposable tissue when you sneeze and cough and dump the tissue into a closed bin. Sneeze into your elbow if you do not have a tissue. 

4) Do not touch anything and touch your eyes, nose and mouth without washing hands. If possible do not touch your face unnecessarily. 

5) Always keep atleast 1 meter distance between you and others. Do not go to any crowded places. Many places are under lockdown. Even then if you have to go to buy groceries make sure that you keep minimum 1 meter distance from the people you encounter. 

6) Take care of your mental health. It is very necessary to pin point the fact that you might be getting affected by all the depressing news and might be feeling anxious. Identify this and confide it to your loved ones. There is no shame in this. 


Most importantly follow the health advisories issued by WHO and your local and central health ministries WITHOUT FAIL. Covid19 is NOT a simple flu. It is a serious and very contagious respiratory disease which is related to SARS. It's name itself says that. The virus is called sars-cov-2. It is very important that you understand the risk and be prepared and be careful of your habits.

7) Always listen to credible and credible sources only. There are so many whatsapp forwards claiming magical cures, "instructions from people who call themselves doctors" etc. DO NOT believet them. If you happen to be a person who tends to gather information via whatsapp, send "hi" to the official whatsapp number of WHO.
https://www.who.int/news-room/feature-stories/detail/who-health-alert-brings-covid-19-facts-to-billions-via-whatsapp

The number for English is "+41 79 893 18 92".

Keep checking the websites of the health departments of your country and states for correct information. Follow the verified social media accounts (with blue ticks ofcourse) of your ministries and local governing bodies. They are much much useful than the fake whatsapp forwards you recieve. If you cannot live without information from whatsapp please follow WHO and the official whatsapps of your respective health ministries.

8) There will be a lot of scams during this time. So beware of them.

9) Shopping - Though many places are under lockdown people will have to go to get groceries at some point of time or the other. Make sure that you stock enough food and can avoid frequenting shops unnecessarily (but don't horde things other humans also need food items).  Make sure that you go shopping at times when there is less crowd (this is for people living in places where there is a possibility of people panicking and crowds occuring in the wake of lockdowns).

Remember this is is an unprecedented thing. None of us ever imagined that such a thing would happen during our life time. To be honest I though that climate change would kill us soon via floods, fires, rising temperatures and droughts, but the possibility of such a severe pandemic had never occured to me. The new normal will be a shock in the beginning, as we get used to it, things will work out. So do not panic. Stay calm. The entire human species going through this.

 But while staying calm be aware of the facts and take the lessons from the places which have been hit severely and do your bit to keep yourself and your locality safe. If all such localities remain safe then the states and countries will remain safer. So starting from yourself practise it. It will be hard. I, a person with no social life, already a socially distant person am finding it difficult to stay away from the nominal amount of human contact I usually have. Even for me a little bit of human contact is necessary. So I can understand that very social people with large friend circles, who love surrounding themselves with people will find this very very difficult. But if you have to have all those circles safe, you need to endure this temporary pain of having to stay at home. Like those posts say, yes you are privilaged you have a home to stay.

But let me comeback to all the instructions part. I am sure that you must be familiar with many of these and there are so many instructions from reliable sources which you can read and practice. So please do that. Also make sure that you pass the correct information to the vulnarable people of the society around you. It may be your maid, it may be your driver or it may be your old parents. Pass the reliable information with explanations which such people can understand and ask them to spread it. Especially if you are someone with basic science understanding, access to the pandemic data via internet, on reliable websites (note the repeated usage of the word "reliable" - this is very very important). There are so many people with no access to these informations around us and around others we know. So start the chain of reliable information to break the chain of transmission of virus.

I have written some of the things which I could remember. Will keep updating as and when I remember. For the time being stay safe and stay healthy.

PS : Cross check all the basic precautions mentioned in this post with those from WHO and health ministries. 

Thursday, October 3, 2019

Image

I know you have an image of me
In your head, that I am this way or that way. 
Let me tell you, keep it with you
I don't care what you think
Of me as long as 
You don't brandish it in front of me 
And pretend that you know me 
Better than I know myself. 

I am a fool according to you
"Falling" in love all the time, 
You think I even fall in love with 
Random lamp posts on the street. 

I am coward, according to you
Becuase you think I never 
Muster up the courage to do things 
Which are branded brave. 

I am a disappointment, according to you
Because I failed to confine within your norms.
Your image apparently depends on my image,
I say that's bad!

You take it for granted to yell at me
That I need to do "self evaluation",
Delve deep into my soul and search for it,
And make me look like a psycho
If I stand up against a wrong thing
You said or did.
Yeah it's your image of me.
What should be my image of you?

You think I am a damsel in distress
Needing to be saved
So you take it for granted that I need you!
And jump at every occassion
To "save" me!
Thank you, but no thank you.

And I am an angry woman,
According to you,
With no insight or farsight,
Incapable of thinking about consequences.
You think I am about to explode
The next moment with anger
When all I am doing is keeping calm.

You see my photo on social media
And comment, "this is not the person we knew",
"What has happened to you?"
"Where has that old you gone?"
As if you knew me very well.
All I can say is, a haircut is not the standard
Of determining whether a person
Is the same or not.
Transitioning from salwar to jeans to
Palazzo too is not.

So you take it upon yourself
To judge me and tell me
Who I am and who I should be!
And even tell me who I was in the past!
When I think, "well this is news".
And wonder if you are taking out
Your insecurities on me.
Because, your image of me might be
That I am a door mat,
Ready to take dust off your mind!

I am amused by what you think,
And what you feel about me.
You think you know me fully
That my life is an open book.
Well the truth is you don't.
Neither do I about you.
Your life is yours,
My life is mine.

So it will be better if you kept
Your image of me with yourself
Stopped pretending that you knew
Me inside out.

When you haven't seen my life
Through my perspective,
Experienced things as me,
How can you claim you know me
Better than I know me?

You are deciding things for me
And trying to impose attributes on me.
The question is, don't you have anything
Better to do in life?
May be you are worried about your own image.
You worry about yours, but don't try to tell me
And impose your beliefs upon me.

You see the problem with an image is,
That if one starts to live for it,
Did everything they did just for it,
Everything would become a mess and
Life will become a hollow process.
You could become untrue to yourself.
No. Don't put others' image of you in front of you
When you really want to find yourself.
The world calling you a "genius" does not make you one,
The world calling you "a loser" does not make you one.
So just don't go around giving attributes to people
Claiming that you know them better.

When you make an image of someone in you mind,
Just remember, images work both ways.
Like I could also have formed
An image of you in my mind,
That you are an mcp or a creep
Untrustworthy, cruel or cunning,
Or just a person obsessed with your own image,
The list can go on.

So don't bother about who or what I am.
Keep your image of mine with you
And live your life
And I will live mine.













Friday, September 6, 2019

Mixed feelings

Day dreaming, I am day dreaming
With my eyes open.
I see you, I see you, smiling
When I close my eyes.

My heart beats fast,
A little bit fast,
When I see you.

Butterflies fly in my belly.
When I look at you.
I can't take my eyes off you,
Who are you? I am day dreaming.

Mesmerised, I am lost, 
In my world of dreams.

But, reality might just have 
Knocked on the door,
Wrenching me out of
This day dreaming mode.

They say that you're not
Who I think who you are;
That you may not love me back
And love my kind; 
I want to ask you, if it's true.
But you are someone ,
I never want to lose. 

Should I give my heart to you?
Or not, I wonder.
Because this time if it breaks 
I am afraid there is no comeback...

I am sad that the buds of my love 
Will wither before they bloom.
Should I just have told you 
And lost you, or lose you silently...

If you can hear me, if you can feel, 
Listen to the sound of my heart, 
There is a feeble voice which says
"I love you"...